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                          - MAN 
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                WIFE
                          - WOMAN 
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                Love
                        God with all his heart 
                    Let nothing separate him from the love of God 
                    Abide in God so He abides in us 
                    Let not your heart be troubled 
                         neither be afraid 
                    Be anxious for nothing 
                    Quench not the Spirit 
                    In everything give thanks 
                    Put God first in all things 
                    Lay up treasures in Him | 
                Freedom
                          - To be 
                      what she wants to be, 
                      with no requirements from the man?  
                    NO!  
                    That is
                            why His calling 
                          is to leave Husband or Wife 
                          and Follow Him and Him only 
                          as His Bond Servant, 
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                Be
                        not conformed to this world 
                         But be transformed to the
                    image of God  | 
                for
                          His purpose only 
                      for change  
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                Have
                        the mind of Christ 
                    Be a new creation in Him  | 
                Requirements
                        for change are not man made | 
               
              
                Be
                        perfect as He is perfect 
                    Sin not 
                    Walk in the Light  | 
                Efforts
                          for change 
                      are not to
                      get what we want 
                     
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                | Be
                        as He is | 
                But
                          to be as He is! 
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            LOVE 
            
              
                Never want anything
                        more than God 
                           Not marriage, wife,
                      ministry, 
                           wealth or things  | 
                Wife
                        cannot come between man and God  | 
               
              
                Never let anything
                        take you 
                           out of your dwelling
                      place  | 
                Dwell
                        in him, in love 
                      as unto the Lord  | 
               
              
                Never try to
                        fix the splinter in someone 
                           else's eye 
                           See that there is
                      no beam in your eye  | 
                Man
                        cannot change his mate 
                      or require the woman to do anything  | 
               
              
                Don't change
                        other - Be transformed 
                           Sufficient therein
                      is the life in Him  | 
                Only
                        God can transform - only as 
                    she disires Oneness  | 
               
             
            Two can
                  only become One as each is already One with God, in Him  
            He alone
                  can take two one's with Him and make them one with Him and
                  with each other  
            All
                    in Him, our Dwelling Place  
               
            
              "That they all
                    may be one; as thou, Father, art in me, and I in thee, that
                    they also may be one in us: that the world may believe that
                    thou has sent me. And the glory which thou gavest me, I have
                    given them; that they may be one, even as we are one."  
              To
                      Be - One in Him 
          and with each other 
                
             
                
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