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                        ROLE | 
                WIFE'S
                        ROLE | 
               
              
                |      to
                        Be, as Christ...  | 
                     to
                        Be, as unto Christ...  | 
               
              
                |      to
                        Love as Christ Loves  | 
                     to
                        love him, as unto Christ  | 
               
              
                |      to
                        Be as Christ Is  | 
                     to
                        be to him, as unto Christ  | 
               
              
                |      to
                        Give as Christ Gives  | 
                     to
                        give to him, as unto Christ  | 
               
              
                     To
                        Be One 
                                 as
                      the Father and Son are One 
                               as
                    Christ and the Church are One 
                               as
                    the Bride and Bridegroom 
                                     in
                    God - as God intended  | 
                     To
                        Be One with him 
                                 as
                      the Father and Son are One 
                               as
                    Christ and the Church are One 
                               as
                    the Bride and Bridegroom 
                                     in
                    God - as God intended  | 
               
              
                     To
                        Dwell in Him (as our Dwelling Place) 
                                 to
                      Abide in Him 
                                 to
                      Be in Him | 
                     To
                        Dwell in him, as unto Christ 
                                 to
                      abide in him, as unto Christ 
                               to
                    be in him, as unto Christ  | 
               
              
                     To
                        Walk in Him 
                                 as
                      the Light 
                                 as
                      the Way 
                                 as
                      the Truth 
                                 as
                      the Life 
                                 as
                      the Spirit 
                                  ...in
                      order to be these things for her  | 
                     To
                        Walk in him, as unto Christ 
                                 as
                      unto the Light 
                               as
                    unto the Way 
                               as
                    unto the Truth 
                               as
                    unto the Life 
                               as
                    unto the Spirit 
                                ...in
                    order to be these things for him | 
               
              
                To
                        Be to her what Christ is 
                    to the Church 
                    (to fulfill His purpose)  | 
                To
                        Be unto him as she is to Be 
                    unto the Lord 
                    (according to His purpose)  | 
               
             
            "Giving thanks always
                  for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord
                  Jesus Christ; Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear
                  of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as
                  unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even
                  as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour
                  of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ,
                  so let the wives be to their own husbands in ever thing. Husbands,
                  love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and
                  gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it
                  with the washing of water by the word, that He might present
                  it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle,
                  or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
                  So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that
                  loveth his wife loveth himself."  
              
            
              This
                      is God's plan for Marriage - for Life. 
                
             
                
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